Friday, August 15, 2025

Being a supportive friend

I'm probably going through some sort of mid-life/pre-parenthood crisis. There aren't yet enough grays in my hair to be described as graying, but I have enough to shed them. I get targeted ads for perimenopause. Corners of the internet have decided I've past the point of adding value to society and it freaks. me. out. Yes, I still get catcalled (gross) but they can't see my crow's feet. I'm deeply envious of the "distinguished" adjective my male counterpoints enjoy. I didn't realize how much value I placed on how I'm perceived. To put it simply, I just don't feel sexy anymore, and my vanity's caught me by surprise.

I'm not sure a photo shoot that celebrates my physical being is exactly what I need - probably realizing that doesn't matter would be healthier. That said, the photo shoot wasn't my idea: a friend wound up on PR for a boudoir photo studio and needed bodies for their open house. So what's a supportive friend to do but show up and strip down?

And you know what? I channeled my inner Beach Barbie and felt awesome. Without further ado, please enjoy the results of my first boudoir photo session.
Bringing all the Beach Barbie energy like any supportive friend when her presence is requested at a boudoir photo studio.

Living my best life not worrying about anyone else's "expiration date" labels.


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