Saturday, August 27, 2022

Signed, sealed, and soon to be delivered

After 5 and a half months of Herculean efforts, all the documents came together just in time for the oldest to not be quite "expired" in the eyes of the French government, for whom no birth certificate is valid beyond 6 months from its date of issue. Several hundred pages (and dollars) (and maybe hours?) later, I've entrusted this baby to the post office and it's literally out of my hands. I've officially (finally!) submitted my request to become a French citizen!



Tuesday, August 23, 2022

Tax-deductible Etsy shopping? Yes, please!

Our forever roommate has finally moved out. After a liberating four weeks of the roommate-free lifestyle, we're just over 24 hours away from the arrival of our next roommate, who's scheduled to live with us for the next twelve or so months. This time around, we're renting it furnished, which gave me a taste of life on the other side: I can now officially say that I've purchased a work of art as a tax write-off. Look at Nico and me living large!

The finalists from my Etsy prowl for guest room décor, now all framed and hung with care chez moi. Theme: gently surreal (non-nightmarish). From top left, clockwise: Catfish by Elizabeth Clark (US), The Magic Door by Felix Zilinskas (Spain), Rainy Day Friend by Jamie Shelman (US), and Henry the Horse also by Felix Zilinskas (Spain). Center: Blue Tiger by Gosia Herba (Poland). And get this: Elizabeth Clark's studio is just a ten-minute walk down the street from me! With that pleasant surprise, how could I turn down purchasing the original?

The weeks of scouring Etsy, Craigslist, and Facebook Marketplace paid off, if I don't say so myself. Ta da!

Freshly furnished, our lovely guest bedroom is now slightly more ours! Just one more year until we can really do with it as we please.

Another bathroom, another set of Fragonard Parfumeur wall decorations. 🤩

Here's to hoping Juliette likes the layout as much as I do.

Sunday, July 17, 2022

An extra leg to our summer vacation

Fate decided we'd earned ourselves a couple extra days of vacation. When delays in our first leg of our trip home started making that connection look awfully tight, we hadn't expected we'd be stranded for days. Our first hint that something was off was when the flight attendant, upon landing, listed about a dozen or so cities for which passengers had connecting flights that had all been missed. Oh, and by the way folks, due to Stampede, every hotel in town is fully booked. [read: enjoy sleeping on the airport floor.] Stampede what?

Some time around the moment we unexpectedly found ourselves passing through Canadian customs for an extra evening abroad, our phones informed us that our second leg from Calgary to San Francisco was being replaced by a next-day, three-leg journey: Calgary → Vancouver → Seattle  → SF. A full day of airport adventures beginning with a 4am check-in? Nope.

We sped-walked our way to the nearest counter and sweet talked our way onto the next direct flight to SF, leaving in only 48 hours. Sir, Ma'am, we'd like to let you know that WestJet won't be able to cover any fees after your first overnight since we have offered you an earlier alternative. We happily paid our way through a weekend in Canada to avoid the airport extravaganza alternative. Here we were, furiously attempting to snag one of the last remaining overpriced Airbnbs and googling what exactly this Stampede was all about.
Tim Horton's. When in Canada...

Made it to the Stampede!

This was our first rodeo!

It wouldn't be a proper rodeo without some live country music.

Check out those mad quilting skills!

Show dogs? Yes, please!

The next morning we were attending the world's largest outdoor rodeo. The cowboys and cowgirls dressed true to trope: cut denim jeans, cowboy boots and hats. The rodeo itself was unexpectedly impressive, and each segment was proceeded by a little "Rodeo 101" instructional film in which an SUV-announcer voice tough-guyed his way through very clear explanations about how the next event worked: a surprisingly inclusive approach to sports. We could tell it wasn't Texas when the announcer in his western drawl informed us that we were on native land, but other than that we were ironically living Nicolas's most American experience in the heart of Canada. Cap it off with a country-fair-style art expo, a stunt dog show, and a fabulous vegan dinner at a small, immigrant-owned Indian restaurant a few blocks away, and frankly we couldn't asked for a more surprisingly well-rounded bonus vacation day. And for once on this vacation, I didn't spend hours coding away. ♥️

Flying in over SF: all vacations come to an end, some just unexpectedly later than others.

Friday, July 15, 2022

A working vacation

 With a massive August 1 deadline looming large at work, the first two weeks of July were hardly the time to jet off to Europe. But the tickets were booked, so travel we did. Consider it more of a remote working situation with slightly reduced hours: while I can count the number of days I worked less than 5 hours on one hand, it's not often that you end the evening with a three-course meal or a theatrical performance in a medieval castle.

We kicked off the vacation with a large family shindig in honor of Nicolas's grandma, whose untimely passing in April of 2020 had been impossible to mark in any communal way given the ban on gatherings at the time. The whole Kouzan clan was there, from across mainland France, Switzerland, and even Reunion Island. Nicolas finally got to test out his newest familial chess rival's skills, and he and I threw hoops with the kids until my shoes were literally bursting at the seams.

Nicolas challenging his nephew to a round of chess

The next week in Paris flew by, between scattered drinks with friends, walks along the Seine, the obligatory Pierre Hermé macarons, and (I hate to admit it) a lot of sleep deprivation to keep cranking out the workload.

Look, I did actually see a bit of Paris between writing all that code!

We awoke at 4:30am to a flurry of messages about the scandalous news breaking from Neuralink as we hurried to off to our 6am train south. At that hour, there'd be no metro to help us out so we had to hike ourselves over to the Gare de Lyon.

The Gare de Lyon positively glows at sunrise

Several glorious high-speed-train hours later, we were planted in a garden in Avignon in southern France, in the shade of the Popes' Palace, overlooking mountains, and crashing hard in an afternoon nap. The lack of wifi in our Airbnb was an unexpected blessing that did allow me to do catch up on sleep over the next few days. But before we could venture much into the winding medieval streets of Avignon, we hit the train station the following morning, destination: Châteauneuf-du-Pape, home of insanely overpriced wines with the most charming bottle insignia.

A day trip to Châteauneuf-du-Pape. On the bottom left you can see one of the many cicadas responsible for the soundtrack of summer in the south of France.

Châteauneuf-du-Pape translates to "the pope's new castle." Back when the popes had temporarily ditched Rome for the south of France, one of them had himself built a castle from a nice vantage point in town with a perfect vista across the hills and the Rhone River. Unfortunately, not too much of said chateau still stands: basically just the facade and one remaining wall. The Nazis used to the facility to store munitions and, when retreating, figured it best blow it all up rather than arm the enemy. Luckily, no bombs destroyed the surrounding vineyards: that was left for climate change to do the job. While the future of these vineyards is feeling quite uncertain, they still output some of France's fanciest wines today. Our best stop was Ogier, where the generous tasting included a proper lesson in the impact of soil (terroir) on the wine: they take the same exact varietal and grow it in four neighboring plots: limestone, sand soil, red sandstone, and cobblestones. They kindly broke out a couple of the bottles and the difference in outcome was striking.

Avignon, where we saw (and survived) theatrical performances, treated ourselves, and unfortunately spent more time on our work laptops in adorable cafés than I care to admit.

We'd arrived in Avignon just in time for the kick off of their annual theater festival, where we squeezed in one horribly classy and seemingly endless performance in the main courtyard (the Cour d'Honneur) within the walls of the Popes' Palace, Chekhov's Black Monk, as well as three much lighter-hearted performances about Olympe de Gouges (France's revolutionary-era outspoken feminist), a love quadrangle, and the struggles of modern day work-life (not starring yours truly). And, although we missed out on properly touring the palace after an afternoon workload left me trapped in a cafe until closing time (remember the wifi-less Airbnb?), we didn't skimp on meals nor the obligatory decadent desserts. And let's be honest, even a cafe in the south of France isn't the worst place for remote work. I discovered the southern French iced tea tradition: green teas pre-steeped with mint and lemon, in a fabulously refreshing concoction. And Nicolas even sampled a coffee and tonic - who'd have thought?

Nicolas finally got to see lavender fields in bloom - a first for him!

A big highlight (for me more so than him) was Nicolas finally seeing the lavender fields in bloom! We ticked that off when venturing out for a day-long tour through an assortment of scenic villages and small towns scattered across the region, where I got a ton of amazing photo ops and basically retained nothing of the local history.

A tour through Provence

Before bidding adieu to Provence, we hit up one last destination: Arles, an old Roman city famous for inspiring many of Van Gogh's paintings and for being a key stop along one of the four pilgrimage routes to Santiago de Compostela. Although we missed out on a tour of the amphitheater upon discovering, to our surprise, that it had closed early to prepare for a bull show that very evening, we still hit up most of the key sites. Our highlights included a tour of the Elysian fields, where pathways are still lined with old decorative coffins as was the tradition in pre-Christian Roman times; and the Pâtisserie Yamamoto, a mouth-watering Japanese-French pastry fusion.

Arles, an old Roman city with delightfully modern pastries

We saw each other off at the Gare d'Avignon, Nicolas to his family reunion part deux, me to the port city of Marseille where Sharon would be meeting me for a last romp in southern France before her big move back to the States after well over a decade of living large in Europe.

A quick girls' trip to Marseille

While in Marseille, Sharon and I ate well, drank well, boated well, and took delight in the dollar and euro hitting parity for the very first time. We toured the Calanques National Park. I got my crêpe with scallops and creamed leeks, and lavender ice cream. We dined on fancy food and pastries near the water. And we befriended our Airbnb host's little dog Paco. Overall, quite a successful girls' trip south.

Meet my new friend Paco!

Nicolas, Sharon, and assorted European friends all gathered to celebrate Bastille Day along the banks of the Seine for a final picnic before packing our bags.

Sharon, me, and Vasilisa enjoying those long French summer nights on Bastille Day

It went by too fast, and with far too much working. Here's to hoping that my very effective demonstration of my capacity to work from abroad leads to a longer trip next year!

Tuesday, June 21, 2022

Another one bites the dust

"Meet me in St. Louis," Ryan told us. And the Aloia clan did, complete with enough party to cover both sides of the aisle. Even Grandpa was unstoppable on the dance floor, showing us all how 92-years-young looks. The married cousin count now stands at 3 out of 12.

Meet me in St. Louis - check

As for how the rest of the weekend looked, let's just say that if you don't knock St. Louis off your list, you don't have to stress. We went the National Blues Museum and the Museum at the Gateway Arch, none of which were really worth writing home over. The next day, Nicolas and I hung out at the zoo before getting some pretty fabulous boozy ice cream at Clementine's Naughty & Nice Creamery which, while writing this post I have just learned, offers nationwide delivery that I am now seriously considering. That Manhattan? I'm not gonna lie - still thinking about it. I've been so sidelined by the ice cream that I nearly forgot to mention the people with whom we shared it - Sylvia and Peter! My middle school friend and her husband are wrapping up their final year in the Gateway City, so Ryan's wedding was a perfect chance for us to all catch up. And it certainly had been a while: last time we'd seen each other, Sylvia completely surprised me with a very pregnant belly at a bar in SF. And before that, we'd met up in St. Louis when I was a tech at Scientifica installing a two-photon microscope at SLU, light years (yet only a half year) away from demoing my own design work to a certain Mr. Musk. Life is strange like that.

This weekend I wore purple shoes, danced with Grandpa, saw Ryan kick off married life, and ate boozy ice cream with several of my favorite people, so I suppose I can't complain. St. Louis: been there, done that, twice. Who'd have thought?

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

The rose festival that wasn't

Turns out those commuter benefits don't just go south. A few months along and a few more Amtrak tricks up our sleeves, we boarded another train from the station down the street, this time northbound. Destination: Portland. Timing: Rose Festival.

"Commuting" to Portland

The surprise of the weekend: the lack of roses at said festival. Somehow the "rose festival" actually translated to a county fair set up in heart of the city, but at least there were fireworks. Luckily Portland also has pastries and tea to distract. Had I forgotten what cold felt like, or how to deal with rain? Perhaps, but nothing a few last minute purchases couldn't resolve. And the shopping gave me a legitimate excuse to drag Nicolas through several cutesy boutiques and outdoor markets.

A weekend in Portland

Overall, there was plenty to fill a long weekend: a pretty great beer selection (unless you're on the hunt for a Belgian triple), some legitimate bread (none of this San Francisco sourdough, thanks), and the cutest bourbon bar. A teamaker from whom I can only assume we'll be placing regular orders for more black lavender. Proper multi-hour hikes within walking distance of city center. And gardens in town that actually do boast those aforementioned roses not exactly featured in their namesake's festival. Not bad for a weekend "commute."😉

Sunday, May 1, 2022

Fancy folks up in wine country

Now that we're fancy, we drink wine. We got sold on a "wine society membership" where we have to buy 3 bottles once every 3 months and, in exchange, we can go up to California wine country and get 1 free tasting per month at each of the Boisset vineyards. If we were to pace ourselves, we'd have an excuse to get up there nearly every weekend now. Our limitation: lack of car ownership. (Like I said, we're fancy.) The nice bit of news is that we can bring up to 4 people to these tastings, so I guess it's time we get on the making-friends-and-playing-nice thing. And surprise, surprise, we pulled it off twice this past month.

Snapshots from visits to Buena Vista and DeLoach Vineyards